Going through a divorce and coming out the other side is probably the most challenging thing you are likely to do bar solo dog sledding to the South Pole and back.
Divorce is now a process that nearly half the married population will experience. Does that mean that half the population must hang its head and scuttle through the rest of life after divorce as abject failures living in anger and resentment? Certainly not.
One of the great tragedies of the whole divorce thing is the damage and pain that lingers for years like a summer thunderstorm rolling around the night sky. For those divorced with school aged children talking to your children's other parent can be one of the most difficult and enduring aspects of life after divorce.
The percentage of second marriages ending in divorce is greater than the percentage of first marriages ending in divorce. However, if you are going to give it another go then here are some thoughts about how to ensure that it's a lifetime relationship and a great life after divorce.
The effects of a divorce can very often be very similar to those produced by the detonation of a ten megaton thermonuclear device. It has two immediate destructive elements, a blast wave and superintense heat plus a much longer radiation effect.
So now you are divorced and ready to take on whatever life after divorce has got in store for you or you might have in store for it. But wait there is a big fat syndrome out there waiting to catch you out.