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The post divorce fallout
So it’s finally over.The shouting and arguments about who gets the toaster; the bickering and snarling; the ominous silences and the sleeping in the spare room; the he said she said accusations. Finished. Done. Now it’s time to get on with things even though this post marriage, post Decree Absolute period could well continue to be a difficult and stressful time.
Divorce is never going to be an easy thing to do
Getting divorced is rarely easy unless you are completely heartless, or your former partner in marriage has run off with the babysitter or the guy who came to service the boiler or, even worse, your treasured Led Zeppelin mint condition vinyl.
Emotional confusion during and after divorce
Inevitably you will have been through and continue to experience a whole range of emotions from anger and resentment to relief that he/she has taken his/her collection of pop diva CDs to clutter up some other living space during and after divorce.
Learning to understand what caused your marital breakdown should help you come to terms with your new life after divorce unless, of course, you are the one who has run off with the babysitter or the boiler maintenance chappie.
Relationship breakdown can leave people feeling bewildered and distressed. Initially there may be a reluctance to accept that the person with whom you thought you were going to spend the rest of your life no longer wants to spend the rest of their life with you. This will ease but it will take time.
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