One of the key factors that characterise the collapse of a marriage and the often provokes the subsequent divorce is a complete lack of sex in the relationship. For many divorcing couples the only thing they have ever done in their bed for many years is to sleep.
When marriage breakdown ends in a bruising divorce it is natural that you may be reticent about embarking on a new relationship in case it leads to the re-opening of wounds that you are anxious to heal.