Sex matters

For many years it was OK for guys to masturbate to cool their sexual passions but women were not supposed to succumb to pleasuring themselves.  Fortuneatly those days are now long gone and women have as much right to this pleasure as men.

Never an easy subject to talk about but one that for many men (and women) is very important especially during a divorce and life after divorce.  At a time when sexual relations are at a low if not nonexistent ebb a little sexual pleasure can be a wonderful thing.

When marriage breakdown ends in a bruising divorce it is natural that you may be reticent about embarking on a new relationship in case it leads to the re-opening of wounds that you are anxious to heal.

If you're sexually frustrated  in your post divorce life after divorce you may be thinking, 'Sex! Chance would be a fine thing', but remember the words of Woody Allen 'Don't knock masturbation. It's sex with someone you love'.

"A fast word about oral contraception. I asked a girl to go to bed with me, she said no.' Woody Allen:  American wit, actor and film director. Don't rely on wit when what you need is a condom!

One of the key factors that characterise the collapse of a marriage and the often provokes the subsequent divorce is a complete lack of sex in the relationship.