Divorce is a difficult, stressful and frightening time and it can also be tough for the lawyers too. They very often have to work with people who are going through an intense personal crisis and are running scared.
In a much to be welcomed change in family court procedures all separating or divorcing couples will soon be referred to mediation to try to settle their disputes.
Wafting down the aisle looking fabulous in a white frock or striding manfully along in a morning suit may seem to bear no relation to getting divorced but sadly, it no longer guarantees a lifetime's commitment to marriage either.
Living together is not the same as being married, you avoid the possibility of divorce but your financial rights within the relationship are very different.
Marriage and civil partnerships give those concerned rights during the life of a relationship and during divorce that are currently not available to those who choose not to formalise their relationship.