The effects of a divorce can very often be very similar to those produced by the detonation of a thermonuclear device. It has two destructive elements, a blast wave and superintense heat followed by the much longer and increadibly damaging radiation effect. Just like divorce.
Your new life
We have all sorts of help and advice about how to regain your self-confidence and prepare for your new life. Feeling good about yourself is vital if you are going to be able to deal with the challenges and the opportunities that lie ahead. This is all about how to move forward from the past and embrace the future with hope, expectation and confidence.
There are no easy solutions to the difficulties of life after divorce. There is no list of surefire tips which will guide you effortlessly through the post divorce battlescape.
So now you are divorced and ready to take on whatever life has got in store for you or you might have in store for it. But wait there is a big fat syndrome out there waiting to catch you out.
We know there are no easy solutions to the difficulties of life after divorce. In Part One we talked about just how difficult things might be.
How to cope with the war zone that is divorce. Dealing with the disappointment and heartache of knowing that someone that you once loved probably no longer feels the same about you.
One of men's greatest impulses is to buy women's underwear. Not for themselves I hasten to add. Although I understand that some women do like to share their knickers with their lover.
What they don't tell during the divorce that you are about to enter a logistical nightmare involving moving children, laundry and assorted electronic gadgets from place to place on time and on schedule.
If it was easy we could all do it and get it right. It isn't easy, so good divorce advice on how to make the best of it is vital. It's a bit like being in a slow motion car crash.