Having to adjust to being on your own again after what may have been a marriage of many years is not going to be easy. Being optimistic post divorce means that the future needs to be viewed as a new beginning rather than an ending.
Living the life
To live the new life fully takes a little bit of knowledge, some experience but most of all lots of practise. It will not happen all at once. There will be times when you think it's all off the rails again. Take heart and keep going. We have some thoughts and advice to help guide you gently towards a better life.
We know there are no easy solutions to the difficulties of life after divorce. In Part One we talked about just how difficult things might be.
Divorce is a simple choice which is very difficult to make. You either do get divorced or you don't. If you do then life after divorce is a different world, the new possibilities are exciting but the choices to be made can be daunting.
There are no easy solutions to the difficulties of life after divorce. There is no list of surefire tips which will guide you effortlessly through the post divorce battlescape.
If it was easy we could all do it and get it right. It isn't easy, so good divorce advice on how to make the best of it is vital. It's a bit like being in a slow motion car crash.
What they don't tell during the divorce that you are about to enter a logistical nightmare involving moving children, laundry and assorted electronic gadgets from place to place on time and on schedule.