We look at your relationship life during and after the firestorm of divorce.  We have advice about how to work with your ex to create a framework to allow for effective coparenting.  It includes help for tackling life as a single parent and the joys (and difficulties) of getting your social life back together. Living as a single parent (or coparent) can be a scary prospect.  If you feel ready, the wonderful world of internet dating is only a click away.

The state of marriage - less divorce but more break ups

Nearly half of all children in the country will see their parents, whether married or unmarried, split up by their 16th birthday.  Marriage is getting less popular and births outside of marriage are at an all time high.

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Divorce survival techniques - some practical advice for men and women

There is a lot of divorce advice about these days, so many ‘miracle' cures to speed you effortlessly towards a better life after divorce.  There are no instant ways to turn your life around.  It takes time and perseverance.  To help you begin the process of transition here is some simple, practical advice which will help you on your way to a better life.

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If you divorce at the tea time of life you may miss the Happy Hour

Is this the tea time of your life, the time after the hurly-burly of kids, school and making one's way in the world when you are looking forward to a glass of wine in life's Happy Hour.

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Having a few secrets from your partner might just be a good idea

Having secrets between you and your partner sounds like a not very good thing to do.  Divorce and the challenges of life after divorce might not be far away.  But no, it could be just the thing to do. 

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If divorce is failure, which it isn't, must every marriage that lasts be a success?

Definitely not.  Consider the merits of an amicable and mutually agreed divorce against continuing with a violent or abusive marriage.  Divorce and a new life is always going to be the better way to go.

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Get the pension and then go for the divorce. Life after divorce at 60

We now have an expectation of living for much longer than our parent's generation and could easily be with our partner for upwards of sixty years.  This is a long time to be sharing a home and a life.

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Staying together but living apart. It's nearly life after divorce but is it a good idea?

A long time ago in the mists of last century a relationship status was easy to define.  You were either, single, married or divorced.  It was clear cut, everyone knew where you were and indeed, where they were.

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"Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness." Is this what life after divorce is all about?

This most famous phrase from the Declaration of Independence which established the United States in 1776 still shines as a beacon of hope down the years.  Life, yes everyone deserves to live.  Liberty (now referred to as freedom) not universally available but highly desireable.

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